Anastacia Gavrilenko

Science, Psychology

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«The problem only becomes a problem once you start viewing it as such»

Every coincidence reveals a pattern behind it, although… Even Freud used to say that “sometimes a banana is a banana”.

I never try to talk anyone out of anything. I just help one realize if his wish is genuine and heartfelt or if it is instant and socially determined.

If we look at people who’re just starting with their lives, the happy ones would be those who don’t bother thinking too much, whereas if we look at those who’re heading towards the end, it would be those who’ve always been more into contemplating things. It’s essential that sooner or later one takes some time to think about his own life and everything that surrounds him.

Otherwise, one will have to live his whole life totally unaware of its ways and the reasons why he keeps stepping on the same rake.

If you always follow your mind, your life will be ever lacking love, which means there will be no life.

Every person is beautiful in his own way. However, the society and the cultural environment set their own standards for what is supposed to be considered beautiful or attractive. The media, together with various health and beauty and fashion establishments both popularize the created image and offer ways of adjusting ones body in accordance with it. Under that type of pressure, a lot of people start going out of their mind in their pursuit of this ideal. Even though, generally, for the majority this ideal initially lies way beyond the reach. It’s just a commercial ploy, which we’re falling victims to.

Our ambitions are sometimes determined by the standards imposed upon us by the society. We’re immensely influenced by the society!!!

The problem only becomes a problem once you start viewing it as such.

There are plenty ways to metamorphose oneself, apart from plastic surgery. Plastic surgery, especially at young age, is an extreme degree of metamorphosing one’s appearance. And at the same time a sign that the time has come to change something in one’s life, not appearance.

Body is the vessel for our soul. So if one wants his soul to be well, he has to love his body and look after it, naturally, if he wants his body to be beautiful and fit, he has to concentrate on harmonizing his soul.

Women have to realize that if they’re trying to act like men and seem emancipated, independent, they have to apply this to everything. Instead of playing a game of double standards, like it’s happening in the majority of cases in our country. I believe that we should reconsider our views on emancipation as we’re already witnessing men turning into women. And that’s no reason for celebration.

Life has its rules. If there’s something happening, maybe it’s meant to act as an impetus for certain changes? The global warming, for example, tells us that we’ve been stuffing up the environment, and it’s time to stop. If we don’t pay attention to the signs that nature’s sending to us, sooner or later it all might result in a disaster.

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